What is a midlife crisis and what does it mean when you no longer recognize your spouse or partner? Learn what a midlife crisis is for a man and woman. Once you understand what causes a midlife crisis, you’ll feel relief knowing you're not 100% responsible - as your partner might lead you to believe. A midlife crisis might seem like it happens overnight, but it’s actually a predictable pattern that was formed long ago. While the details of your situation may vary, it can help to know that you are not alone during this challenging time. RESOURCES & LINKS: ____________________________________________ FREE Midlife Crisis Guide: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com/teleclass/ Wife in Midlife Crisis: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com/men Husband in Midlife Crisis: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com/women Midlife Crisis & Divorce: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9hCIDLemtg&t=14s How Long Does A Midlife Crisis last?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8SaCC9NHbY&t=1s The Cause of Anxiety & Negative Thoughts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7sUWwHugg8 ____________________________________________ Right now you're wondering "What is a midlife crisis and how do I deal with it?" A midlife crisis is a real thing, and it can affect both married and unmarried couples. If your wife or husband is experiencing a midlife crisis, it is important to remember that it is not your fault. The best way to deal with it is to try to understand the root cause of the problem and to support your spouse through this difficult time. What might have been acceptable selfishness as a child, is now being acted out as an adult. It’s as if this person is saying “I want my way now and I’m sick of waiting.” The source of this pain is NOT you, but pain from your spouse’s childhood. The strangest part of a midlife crisis is that your spouse becomes two personalities. One is their original personality where they have conscience and a sense of regret, while the second personality is a completely childlike figure whose mission it is to take whatever feels good without conscience. With this new personality I call the chaos kid, five rules appear in the midlife crisis: 1) Their needs are more important than your needs. 2) They sell themselves as somebody they’re not. 3) Any good thing you do they see as a threat. 4) They want what they can’t have, and what they have, they don’t want. 5) They say what they don’t mean, and what they mean, they don’t say. Here are some tips for dealing with a midlife crisis in your spouse: - Learn about midlife crises. The more you know about this condition, the better equipped you will be to deal with it. - Be supportive and understanding. Remember that your spouse is going through a difficult time and they don't fully understand what is happening to them. - Don't take it personally. It is important to remember that your spouse's behavior is not a reflection of you. It is caused by their childhood trauma. - Seek professional help. If you are struggling to cope with your spouse's midlife crisis, consider seeking professional help can offer relief. Remember, you are not alone. There are many people who have been through this, and the resources below are available to help you. ► If you want to shorten your spouse or partner's midlife crisis, watch my free online webinar: https://larrybilotta.com/webinar/ ►Subscribe: https://bit.ly/3PF4Vqn for more marriage saving tips. ►Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MrLarryBilotta/ ►On Twitter: https://twitter.com/LarryBilotta #whatisamidlifecrisis #whatisamidlifecrisisforaman #whatisamidlifecrisisforawoman #whatdoesmidlifecrisisfeellike #whatdoesamidlifecrisislooklike