What are the top 3 signs of a midlife crisis in men and women? If the person you love has dramatically changed (almost overnight), you've left the world of logical thinking and entered the land of blaming, accusations, emotional, and physical chaos. Learn to recognize the signs of a man or woman going through midlife crisis to get some calm and clarity in this new world of chaos. RESOURCES & LINKS: ____________________________________________ FREE Midlife Crisis Class: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com/teleclass/ Wife in Midlife Crisis: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com/men Husband in Midlife Crisis: https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com/women What is a Midlife Crisis? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61vo7oZAOAU Midlife Crisis & Divorce: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9hCIDLemtg&t=14s How Long Does A Midlife Crisis last?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8SaCC9NHbY&t=1s The Cause of Anxiety & Negative Thoughts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7sUWwHugg8 When Narcissists Have a Midlife Crisis https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4XHjkWOp3c ____________________________________________ Do you suspect the person you love is going through a midlife crisis? Have you spoken with a professional counselor, family member or friend who told you midlife crisis isn’t real, but you suspect there is something to it? Are you wondering if it’s midlife crisis or if your partner is just a narcissist? Learn to recognize the signs of a midlife crisis to understand what’s happening with the person you love. The signs of a midlife crisis can be summed up in one word: SELFISHNESS. In order to thrive in a family, career, or community, it’s difficult to be selfish. Once a midlife crisis arrives, the first sign you’ll see is some form of selfishness. If a spouse has been resisting internal messages from childhood for a long time, the signs and symptoms of a midlife crisis may come as a complete surprise. This selfishness is founded on feeling of being "denied" for a long time. And now, they want to make up for that which is why it’s common for a man or woman in midlife crisis to act like a rebellious teenager. When a man or woman is in midlife crisis, they are not rational. You can't reason them. You'll see a complete disconnect with who they were in their previous life. Think of this man or woman as two people, like Dr. Jeckly and Mr. Heide. The first is who they really are, but the second person is a childhood caricature demanding that they be given everything they were denied as a child. Internally, they feel a constant battle between the ideas of service to others and service to self. The idea of perceiving everything as a threat vs. listening to the ideas and needs of other people. This internal struggle makes it very hard to concentrate.Signs of a midlife crisis in women could include losing weight, wearing more provocative clothing and makeup in an attempt to improve her appearance, among others. In men, they might make large purchases or buy gadgets to make himself happy. They may search for women in all the wrong places. But if your husband, wife or partner has become a completely different person, this is a telltale sign that a midlife crisis has arrived. Guilt, crying, lashing out, anger, ups and downs are all part of a midlife crisis. When you look at the previous personality of your spouse, you won't see this high level of selfishness that some refer to as narcissism. In a midlife crisis, selfishness can be seen in every word and every action, in every shape and form. Since midlife crisis begins with a chaotic childhood, there are five rules that sum up the signs of a midlife crisis. 1 – Their needs are more important than your needs. 2 – They sell themselves as somebody they’re not. 3 – Any good thing you do or say they see as a threat. 4 – They want what they can’t have and what they have, they don’t want. 5 – They say what they don’t mean, and what they mean, they don’t say.These behaviors can be very disorienting, but if you know what to expect, it can put you at ease, if only for a moment. ► If you want to learn how to shorten your spouse or partner's midlife crisis, watch my free online webinar: https://larrybilotta.com/webinar/ ►Subscribe: https://bit.ly/3PF4Vqn for more marriage saving tips. ►Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MrLarryBilotta/ ►On Twitter: https://twitter.com/LarryBilotta #midlifecrisis #signsofmidlifecrisis #midlifecrisissymptoms #midlifecrisisinman #midlifecrisisinwoman