Many guys are often surprised to find out how difficult it can be for some good looking, handsome men to get laid or get a girlfriend. Of course, there’s usually no sympathy from guys who aren’t handsome or good looking, but it’s still surprising. So, why does it happen? Why do many good looking guys struggle to get a girlfriend or even a date? As I explain in the video above, many women are insecure and worry that if they get into a relationship with a good looking or very handsome man, they won’t be able to keep him happy and attracted in the long run. As a result, many women avoid very good looking or handsome men and end up opening themselves up to men who aren’t even on the same level as them in terms of looks. That way, a woman feels as though she will have the best chance of securing herself a boyfriend who will actually stick with her for life. So, what’s a good looking guy to do if he can’t get a girlfriend? The 4 tips I discuss in the video are: 1. Remember to put a woman's insecure mind at ease, by adding in some genuine compliments as you talk to her. 2. Understand that many women avoid getting into a relationship with a good looking guy because they fear getting dumped and having their heart broken. 3. Don't lose confidence if she plays a bit hard to get. 4. Understand that in most cases, you still have to go through the same process as other guys, if you want an attractive girlfriend. With the last tip, I explain that in many cases, a beautiful woman has had some experience getting into relationships with good looking or handsome men and she knows that not all of them can remain confident in a relationship. If she had previously gotten into a relationship with a handsome man who became insecure, jealous and controlling, she will usually begin to realize that, in order to make a relationship work for real, she’s going to have to select a guy based on him being truly confident. Yet, when she tries to find herself a truly confident, good looking guy, she realizes that there are hardly any available. Most are either taken or enjoying a player lifestyle. So, she then decides to open herself up to guys who aren’t on the same level in terms of looks as she is, as long as the guy is truly confident and is the type of guy who won’t end up becoming insecure, jealous and controlling in a relationship. Of course, she has no guarantee of that, but she tries to select guys based on them having true, independent confidence (i.e. he remains confident no matter what she says or does to test his confidence). This is why, as a good looking guy, you usually have to go through the exact same process as other guys who aren’t as blessed as you genetically. You have to be able to make a woman feel attracted to you in other ways during a conversation (e.g. by displaying true confidence, making her laugh, being emotionally masculine, being charismatic), so she can see that you have the inner qualities that will make a relationship work in the long run. If you can do that, a woman will fully open up to you and you can then create an emotional connection with her and take things to the next level (e.g. kiss, sex, relationship). It really is VERY easy to do, even for guys who aren’t good looking (like me). If you’d like to know exactly what to say and do to go from, “Hello” to sex with a woman that you find attractive, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html See you in the next video! Cheers Dan